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Short-Circuit Intimacy

Updated: Jul 11

Greg and Claira were in for a shock when they realized their intimacy was lacking that special spark. With Greg wondering what he's missing and Claira feeling disconnected, the duo sought help to reignite the flames in their relationship.

 

After a year of coaching to bridge the gap, I provided these tips to light up the bedroom and bring back the passion they once had. By working together, they were able to turn their short-circuited intimacy into a glowing connection filled with pleasure and understanding!

 

Greg asks, "What am I doing wrong? Why can’t she reach an orgasm?

 

Claira says, " I don't like the way he touches me; I do not believe it can be fixed."



 

Insights from the Sex Coach #1:


Greg, "What am I doing wrong? Why can’t my partner reach an orgasm?"

In examining the complexities of sexual satisfaction, it is crucial to go beyond the physical aspects such as penetration and arousal. A noteworthy observation in the realm of orgasm attainment, between men and women. Research indicates that within the age bracket of 18 to 59, about 26% of women achieve orgasm, in contrast to the 93% success rate among men. This stark contrast underscores the importance of recognizing and addressing the unique needs and challenges faced by individuals of different genders in the realm of sexual fulfillment. Women's perspectives that intimacy is elements such as emotional closeness, security, availability, quality time, and mutual energy and attraction.  Well before we move forward, it is crucial to address the issue of women being absent in their self-pleasure. It is essential for individuals to actively participate in their pleasure and explore various forms of stimulation. However, the ability to openly communicate about sexual topics or seek education in this area is often hindered by feelings of shame, societal traditions, and a lack of proper teaching.


Insight from the Sex Coach #2:


Claira, "I don't like the way he touches me; I do not believe it can be fixed."


Are you guiding your pleasure in the bedroom?

Are you communicating with detailed help?

Are you speaking about sexual techniques that will be fun?

Are you aware of your body before, during and after sex?

Are you giving verbal cues during the sexual experience?

Are you providing honest feedback?


At the core of fostering healthy relationships lies the crucial element of open communication. By establishing a safe space for individuals to express their sexual needs and desires, we are paving the way for understanding, respect, and mutual satisfaction. Through effective communication, we can navigate complexities, address concerns, and build stronger connections based on trust and honesty




Published by Certified Sexologist Nita Love

Huntsville, Alabama

224 Church Street, Suite D

POC: 256-559-4501

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