BEYOND THE RED FLAGS! Who taught us that red flags are stop signs? Does the flag flash or beep ever times a person comes near like warning signal? Or loud pops when you introduce yourself. No! In the journey of relationships, it's crucial to move beyond the red flags that may halt our progress. Rather than viewing warning signs as stop signs, let's shift our perspective to see them as opportunities for growth. These red flags serve as indicators for us to pay attention and delve deeper into the underlying issues. By acknowledging and addressing these challenges head-on, we pave the way for stronger and more fulfilling connections. Let's embrace the process of growth and self-discovery in our relationships, transcending limitations and fostering deeper understanding.
Can not cook | Red Flag | Root Cause: No one ever took time to show them how to cook. Heart Posture: willing to learn and excited to learn | Beyond the Red Flag |
Over friendly | Red Flag | Root Cause: Isolated as the only child. Heart Posture: amazing conversationalist loves to have fun | Beyond the Red Flag |
Secretive | Red Flag | Root Cause: Parents taught discretion in household growing up. Heart Posture: Does not reveal issue in the relationship only seek clarity from you. | Beyond the Red Flag |
Extremely Smitten | Red Flag | Root Cause: Lack the ability to meet beautiful women in a small town. Heart Posture: extremely attractive and willing to worship the ground you walk on. | Beyond the Red Flag |
CHALLENGED WITH RED FLAGS 🚩 GO DEEPER!
TIP #1
Go Beyond the Red Flag and look for the root!
In our journey of self-discovery and personal growth, it is essential to evaluate any red flags that arise and delve into their roots. Are they stemming from self-affliction, past trauma, fear, or perhaps something else entirely?
TIP #2
Check the heart posture of the person once you get to the root of the problem.
What is the root cause of the person red flag?
Are they willing to change the red flag?
Are they aware of the red flag?
Do they take accountability when the red flag presents itself?
Can they forgive themselves and others?
Is this red flag too difficult for the TEAM?
Can they communicate about the red flag openly and honestly?
Is the red flag too much for the you to handle? (Snoring loud) for example
Is the red flag minor or harmful behavior?
Is the red flag abusive?
* Nita Love Coaching Moment
"A gentle reminder that everyone has the capacity to cause hurt, yet people can also be healer of pain, light in the dark, friendship, accountability partner and more; highlighting that there are individuals worth taking a chance on. Gather up the courage to navigate through uncertainties, for therein lies the path to growth and meaningful connections".
A relationship is classified as a bond between two people in order to reach the core and the best parts of the relationship is move towards the issues and solving them as team. This is how we win. Some of us lack sportsmanship in the dating, relationship and marriage journey!
T- Together
E- Everyone
A-Achieves
M -More
In the beautiful journey of love, we are called to walk hand in hand with bravery and embrace vulnerability with trust. It is in these moments of imperfections, fears, and pressures that we truly connect with our partner. We must be open and present, willing to see who we love, date or marry in times of unfamiliarity. We can cherish these opportunities to grow closer and strengthen the bond that the TEAM will share.
Published by Certified Sexologist Nita Love
Couple and Singles Available Clients
Huntsville, Alabama
224 Church Street, Suite D
POC: 256-559-4501
Email: nitaloveexperience@gmail.com
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